Dear New Grads......

I work with many grads who talk about "dream jobs" or a specific salary, which only sets them up for disappointment. It's great to dream, but knowing it's a process and not a one-and-done is the best advice I can give you.

I advise you to focus on a few things:

1. Culture fit--working in a place that supports who you are and what's important to you is worth more than money.

2. Find a position that will set you up for the next one. Create a career progression ladder and know that you have to start at the bottom.

3. Do more! Doing what's asked of you and "then some" will propel you ahead of others who don't.

4. Be willing to reevaluate and change paths. Just because your major is finance, doesn't mean to have to go in that direction. College is an exploration and if you've found your passion and interests are in a different direction--go for it. It serves no one to take a job doing something you dislike or one that doesn't bring you satisfaction.

5. Know that things won't go perfectly. Be resilient; give yourself grace and patience.

6. Don't pursue someone else's dream--not your parents, not your siblings, not your peers. You don't have to justify your career direction to anyone. Instead, be true to who you are and who you want to become.

7. Remember, your job is your job. It's not a social gathering or an entertainment venue. While your workplace should be enjoyable and comfortable, it will feel like work much of the time, and some days will be difficult. It's the nature of the beast. Remind yourself that you're getting paid, and your job makes the rest of your life possible.

So, new grads—go forth and conquer the world!